med wordsMedical Terminology

Every health condition comes with its own language, medical terminology and decision options. End of Life is no different.  While CPR and DNR may be familiar to many, that doesn’t mean they are understood as intended.

New ‘terms’ such as Allow Natural Death or AND and Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking or VSED have been created to add to options to consider.   Understanding the words and terms used is one thing. Being able to act on them is another.

Ricky’s mother had a ‘good death’

Ricky’s mother had a ‘good death’

Of the three siblings, Ricky – the sole daughter – was closest to her mother, Anna. “When my marriage ended, my kids and I lived with my mother. We all adored her.” In the last three years of her life Anna- who died at age 91 – was beset by Dementia. “It was more than memory loss – it was her wonderful personality that vanished.” In spite of the pain of her beloved mother disappearing, Ricky took care of her until the end.

A beautiful death

A beautiful death

“My mother was ‘dying’ for about 10 years – with her sickness, she seemed often on the brink of death, and then she’d rally. We’d all said our goodbyes a number of times. But on the day she actually died, my father was in her bed, his arm around her, holding on to...

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I am dying from the treatment of too many physicians.

Alexander the Great