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Alzheimer’s Caregiver, Daughter-in-law

Tina’s story of Alzheimer’s: love and understanding I was fortunate enough to walk through a journey of Alzheimer’s by my father-in-law’s side. Together we mastered the mysteries, the fears and the utter atrocity that the disease brings and we also discovered a deep rooted love and admiration for each other. He was 65 when he forgot his own birthday party My father-in-law, Poppa as he was known by family, was 65 when he forgot to attend the birthday party we were hosting for him. That is how the disease first introduced itself. As a family we all took on different roles. Some did his finances, others his legal counsel and I did the visiting. Being the extended member of the family, Poppa’s finances and legalities were not my business nor my strength. People and patience were and so began my adventure with Poppa and my role as a caregiver and battler of Alzheimer’s. I had never met the disease before, yet in today’s world technology gives us a library of information right in our own laptop. So I read, researched and spoke to anyone who would take a call. I learned quite quickly that Alzheimer’s would bring with it demons for Poppa that I would never be able to see or reason with. In order for Poppa to deal with those black thoughts I had to ensure that with every visit I arrived in a positive and open to anything kinda mood. Good days and bad days There were good days and there were bad days. The good days are when he recognized me or knew me as someone...